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Jumping in HEAD first!


I am sorry for the LONG delay in writing, life has happened so quickly and we have kind of been keeping to ourselves.  However I had something brought to my attention lately and I wanted to elaborate on this a bit.  Some of this post may be kind of a re-run of other posts but that’s okay.

My wife and I have been approached recently by a person asking questions.  It started when my wife was jokingly talking to her and told her she was just “scared to try it.”  She has known the lifestyle we partake in on occasions and has asked questions for years.  Until recently, she has not been asking serious questions.  After this comment she started getting serious and asking detailed questions.

One of the suggestions this friend came up with to get her involved was having a party and letting things “just happen.”   This is an awesome idea, if and only if everyone involved is accustomed to this lifestyle.

After my wife and I visited about this situation we decided to sit down and together write this blog.

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Posted by on June 4, 2012 in Blog Entry

 

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When They Fall In Love.


Here is a quick personal experience.

I have spoken about the “Rules” and I have spoken about their being a “Separation of Love.”

If you will recall, among the rules was

DO NOT FALL IN LOVE

During play, YOU are OUR toy! Like wise, WE are YOUR toy! We will each enjoy playing with our toys!

We already have our favorite toy we love and that is each other.  There is not room in our relationship for another person to love romantically.

We love all our friends, with friend love.

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Posted by on September 12, 2011 in Blog Entry

 

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Swingers Rules


There are many sites out there that talk about different rules.  There are rules for Parties and there are Personal Rules.

I we are not real big into the party or club scene, so I can only speak of the personal rules.

In all the rules you need to know they vary from person to person.  If your interested in a couple, one of the biggest things is to have the open communication of the rules.  Be prepared however to be liberal on your rules a little bit, they are able to be bent but never BROKEN!   In your conversation with others in the Lifestyle, you may learn new rules you would like to apply.  You may also learn why they don’t practice a rule that you do and you may find it to be a good reason and together with mutual agreement abolish that rule all together!

These rules and beliefs belong to our lives specifically.  They are generally widely accepted across the lifestyle and are a good starting point for you and your spouse. Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on August 9, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

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